How would you describe a healthy relationship with a loved one?
Relationships, they are so interesting..
There is so much to it, because relationships seem to be something that just appears here on earth in this lifetime, but they are connected to so many more lives, so many more contracts.
So much more.
That is why you often don’t really understand what is going on in the relationship you are in.
You are attached to much more lifetimes than this one and your soul is filled with so many more experiences.
And in this timeframe on earth, with all frequencies that are changing towards higher frequencies and therefore shadows that are put into full light, relationships are the teachers for everyone at this moment.
You will notice that normally you would agree on certain subjects in relationships, but at the moment you are challenged on that as well.
That is only because it is time to really, really be authentic and have a relationship with yourself before with anyone else.
Whenever there is a little disruption on the line between two people, it will show itself immediately.
It is impossible to have an unconscious part where there are still feelings or emotions of pain, sadness or separation. They will all appear within the moment that you are together.
And if you do not do something with that, you will notice, because you will not feel at ease.
You will feel there is something ‘cooking’.
And now is the time to look it all into the eye.
So what is a healthy relationship?
A healthy relationship is a relationship where you look yourself in the eye,
with everything that appears within your consciousness, in your field or in your exchange with the other.
You open your heart and be aware of what it is that can bring you back to more love for yourself.
A healthy relationship is a relationship in which two people are both totally committed to be completely transparent, completely vulnerable, and in which you see Source within the other person. You see that the other person is an expression of Source and so are you, yourself, an expression of Source.
And that there is no guilt, nor shame, nor fear.
Everything is exactly how it is meant to be.
And within everything that happens within that relationship, you are spaceholders for each other and for yourself.
To understand and to grow, to open your heart more and more and to break down all the walls of protection that you have built over the years and maybe not only in this lifetime.
So awareness, being aware, opening your heart.
And why do we mention the expression of Source in the other, is to bring you to a higher level, to take you out of your personality or your wounded child.
If you can step towards a higher level, a more mature level, then you can see the other as pure, without the pain in yourself.
Whenever you are able to open your heart and to feel your own pain, but not project it on the other one, thát is a healthy relationship.
So see the true love of the other, that that person is Source, that there is duality in the other as well as in yourself and that is part of life.
Together you guide each other towards living your own truth.
And above all, always love yourself first.
Because by loving yourself first, you give the other the biggest gift of life.
You give love, true love.